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27 May
I have reached the end of an era and sit at a crossroads. When you have to make the choice on where you want to go next, do you take the road that you have taken in years past, or do you dare to go someplace different?
When I began working from home, I took on freelance clients right and left trying to make ends meet and somewhere in the middle I took on a steady paying gig and pursued my own things on the side. It worked better that way- because I could count on the money month after month.
I had a feeling that it was coming down the pike for a while, but even with that in the back of my mind it shocked me today to find out that the job was no longer. So now I find myself at a turning point. Do I go back to freelance work- picking up gigs when I can and pounding the pavement? Do I try for a permanent position and put the kids in day care? Do I look for a part time gig? Do I focus my attention on my own projects and hunker down on the book that I am writing?
I can’t stop working. It’s not in my DNA. But I must decide (rather quickly) where to go from here.
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7 Responses for "Crossroads"
Stay home with the kids, you only have this time when they are little once, go back to free-lancing, you will feel much better in the long run,
First of all I am only speaking from partial experience. I don’t work from home. Putting your kids in daycare is a very very very difficult decision. I was never left with the feeling my kiddo got the same care I would have provided her. However, daycare is good in the fact she got to be around other kids and made friends. (I was not in any playgroups due to my work schedule) You will miss your kids. Pumping is such such such a pain at work. I did that for months and that is what eventually led to me stop nursing my kiddo.
Now there is something for being said to know you have money coming in and you know where you will work the next day. Then there are the benefits from working with a company.
you will have to figure out what is best for your family. If you can make ends meet working at home that may be what is best for you right now. that is my 2 cents.
My vote is with Grandma here. If you can make it work and stay home with them (sure, work on the side, you’ve been doing that anyway!) then I’d do that.
I’m PT job hunting for an evening job in order to keep the kids out of daycare - I just don’t want to do it. I know ODD would be fine but it’s YDD I’d worry about. It’s so hard to provide care for the lit’ns with the kind of attention they deserve.
The extra money is nice, sure. But in a year and a half SUB will be in school and you will be tied to that kind of schedule, you can WAH then. Baby Z will be older and a little more independent.
That’s my 2-cents, I’ve done both and while SAHM/WAHM is tough, it’s way more forgiving than the business world.
That’s a tough one. For me, I am lucky that I can put my daughter in the day care at the school I teach at. it’s not super cheap…but my DH and I are happy with it and we know that I can stop in to see her anytime.
I think you need to decide what feels right to you and what you will feel satisfied with. I firmly believe that if mommy is happy…everyone is!!
GOOD LUCK!
I am all for staying at home if you can, but in the end you do what you have to do. I am sure you will find enough work from home to stay afloat. You are a great writer and you have many talents.
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